Growing up in a shelter is a unique experience that is often subject to stereotypes and misconceptions. Unfortunately, these stereotypes can create a stigma around those who have lived in shelters, making it difficult for them to move beyond their past and achieve their goals. I hope to address some of the common stereotypes associated with living in a shelter as a child and provide a more accurate understanding of this experience from a personal experience.

Myth 1: Children in shelters come from bad families

This stereotype assumes that children living in shelters are the result of bad parenting or a broken home. However, this is not always the case. There are many reasons why families may find themselves in need of shelter, such as job loss, medical expenses, or unexpected life events. In fact the majority of homeless families are headed by single mothers who have experienced a significant life crisis, such as domestic violence, job loss, or illness.

Myth 2: Children in shelters are not educated

This stereotype assumes that children living in shelters do not have access to education or do not attend school regularly. However, federal law mandates that all children, regardless of their housing status, have access to a free and appropriate education. Many shelters also offer educational programs and services to support children’s academic success.

Myth 3: Children in shelters are not well-behaved

This stereotype assumes that children living in shelters are more likely to misbehave or engage in delinquent behavior. However, research suggests that children who experience homelessness may actually be more resilient and adaptable than their peers, due to the unique challenges they face. Moreover, living in a shelter can be a stressful and uncertain experience, which may lead to behavioral issues. It is important to understand that these behaviors are not a reflection of the child’s character, but rather a response to their circumstances.

Myth 4: Children in shelters are a burden on society

This stereotype assumes that children living in shelters are a drain on society and contribute nothing of value. However, research suggests that children who experience homelessness often face significant barriers to success, such as lack of access to healthcare, adequate nutrition, and stable housing. By providing these children with the support they need to overcome these challenges, we can help them to thrive and contribute positively to society.

FINAL THOUGHTS…

It is important to recognize that living in a shelter as a child is a unique experience that is often subject to stereotypes and misconceptions. Rather than perpetuating these stereotypes, we should seek to understand the complex and varied reasons why families may find themselves in need of shelter. By doing so, we can support these families and help to break the cycle of homelessness for future generations.